We all have those special relationship with a friend that just feels right. For some ‘unknown’ reason everything clicks. And, almost every time you are with that person, it’s a joy. Often, you find our thoughts of your friend welcomingly reoccurring in your mind throughout the day. Unquestionably, you are blessed to have these close connections. With any luck, they may even turn out to be your husband or wife, child or parent, but most often it’s your best friend. When you meet these soul-mates for the first time, you feel a warmth––a knowing inner connection. At times it feels as though there is an unimpeded energy transfer taking place when you are together.
Then again, have you ever had the experience of being introduced to someone and then getting a definite danger signal? Maybe you felt an unease by being near them, or even sensed a repulsion. How did that manifest to you? A prickly feeling on the back of the neck? A queasiness in your energy system? Or have you, at times, felt as though there was is an invisible wall separating the two of you? An instinctual knowing that you will never connect in a deep way with them?
Either way, there is a palpable energy transference that can either flow freely or feel blocked. At these times of connection, your inherent energetic nervous systems––our extrasensory radar––jumps into play to encourage you to move forward or to proceed with unexplained caution. It’s when you block that 6th sense that you step into the relationship with blinders, often relying on your rational brain to justify or negate the impressions that the heart is attempting to divulge. Later, you feel as though you have been betrayed, but that’s often due to the false impression you accepted when you discounted the wise counsel of your heart, your inner wisdom.
How does this inner wisdom know that which is unseen, that which is hidden behind the scrim of our observance? Could that inner wisdom be none other than your essential self, your Higher Self? All of your perceptible existence is formed from vibrations. From the essence of space to the solidity of earth, your reality is built upon higher and higher octaves of spiraling and ascending energy. It’s the DNA serpentine coil of the universe. You, being a part of nature, are also a result of that energy coil. You can even go so far as to say your thoughts are also a manifestation of that primal energy. Nothing exists separate and apart form the vibratory matrix of creation.
Your Higher Self, being intimately connected to the greater intelligence of the cosmos, and being vibrationally and sensitively tuned to the harmonic substructure of life, resonates with all vibrations, especially those found in close proximity. When you encounter another person who enters your auric field––your perimeter of vibration––the Higher Self begins to entrain with the resonance of that new body. Between your own harmonic field and that of the other person, there arises a new combination, called an interval in music. That is when you begin to sense the attraction or repulsion signals subtly coming from within.
In music, there are 12 intervals, like the 12 birth months of the year. Each interval combination hold a certain degree of energy––from consonant to dissonant. By knowing how these individual intervals resonate, and to what degree of consonance or dissonance they contain, you can gain great insight into why you feel the attraction or repulsion in your interpersonal relationships. You want and need them all, both easy and challenging, to create your journey through life. However, having the tools and knowledge to understand the vibrational dynamics at play, gives you an upper hand in manifesting the highest degree of harmony in your life.
Next time, follow your intuition. It’s a message from your heart. When you meet someone who sparks that feeling of challenge, go with it, but remember to be conscious of dissonance. Constantly be aware of the interval relationship you are entering. Some are consonant, some dissonant. They all go the make the Symphony of Life!